ABOVE ALL OTHER THINGS, PRAY:
Since you never know where your future mate may be right now, pray for them daily. Pray also that God will continue to mold you into the person He wants you to be before you two start dating. We all want God's best for our lives, and for dating. In Genesis 2:18 we see that when God created Eve it was not so that she could cook meals for Adam or mend his clothes; because he had no cloths, and when hungry, he could just reach out and pick his food off a tree. Eve was created for companionship, deep friendship and intimacy. Also remember that there is nothing ?wrong? with being single. Jesus was single his entire life on earth yet he had deeper, more intimate friendships than some married couples have with each other. If God has planted in your heart the desire for a mate there is nothing ?wrong? with seeking a mate, or dating single Christians. (Please keep in mind that when you encourage your single Christian friends to join Adam Meet Eve...there is probably someone else who is telling your future ?soul-mate? about AME service as well. Or perhaps God may use a few words from you to a friend to bring your friend a mate, or a single Christian to start dating. Wouldn't it feel great to be used by God in some small way to bring a lifetime of happiness to a friend?) |